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Rose Hills Memorial Park
100 Mill Street Putnam Valley, NY 10579
(845) 528-3516

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What to Do First When Someone Dies

When a loved one dies, the days that follow can be difficult. It's essential to know the first steps to take, from obtaining a legal declaration of death to contacting a funeral home.

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Burial or Cremation. How Do I Choose?

Choosing between cremation and burial can be a challenging decision, but understanding the key factors can help. At Rose Hills Memorial Park in Putnam Valley, NY, we explore the benefits of both options.

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The Complete Guide to Burials

When a loved one passes away, the task of planning a burial can feel overwhelming. Whether you choose a traditional cemetery or a memorial garden, Rose Hills Memorial Park helps you understand your options.

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The Complete Guide to Cremation

Discover why cremation is becoming the preferred choice for many families, with its flexibility, cost-effectiveness, and environmentally friendly options.

The Complete Guide to Memorial Services

From selecting a meaningful venue to incorporating personal touches that reflect your loved one's life, a Memorial Service can be tailored to honor their memory. Here's how.

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How to Talk to Your Aging Parents About End-of-Life Planning (and what to do when they won’t)

How do you talk to your aging parents about end-of-life planning? It’s a conversation many families avoid, only to find themselves searching for documents they've never seen. Here are some tips for having the conversation now, before that moment arrives.

It’s Summer! Why Don’t I Feel It?

It's summer, and you're not quite feeling it. A piece about seasonal nostalgia, Summer SAD, and the grief the season can stir up.

When Father’s Day Finds You on the Outside

For fathers estranged from their children: the grief no one names, the story you can't correct, and finding peace anyway.

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Choosing Sympathy Flowers

Choosing the right sympathy flowers can be a heartfelt way to express your support during difficult times. With numerous options available, understanding the meanings behind different colors and types of flowers can help you convey how you feel.

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Complete Guide to Planning a Funeral

Because families often hold funerals just days after death — within 24 hours in certain religions — the process of planning a funeral can be overwhelming. There’s a lot to do, countless considerations to weigh, and seemingly endless lists of

Choosing Music for a Memorial Service

Music captures feelings that words struggle to articulate, especially during moments of grief. Selecting meaningful songs for a memorial service or funeral can create a deeply personal tribute that honors your loved one’s life.

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What to Write in a Sympathy Note

A heartfelt sympathy note can mean the world to someone grieving. The Emily Post Institute emphasizes that honesty is key: say what you truly feel. Even a few sincere sentences can provide comfort and support.

How to Write an Obituary

Writing an obituary is a deeply personal endeavor that goes beyond listing accomplishments and dates. It’s an opportunity to capture the essence of your loved one’s life and legacy. How do you want their story to be told?

Navigating Sensitive Topics Via Text

In a world where technology rapidly changes how we communicate, the essence of etiquette remains steadfast. Emily Post, a pioneer in the field, emphasized the importance of consideration, respect, and honesty—principles that still resonate today.

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Announcing a Death on Social Media

Social media has transformed how we share our lives, including our grief and loss. Here are some tips for announcing a death on platforms like Facebook.

How to Memorialize a Facebook Page

Social media has transformed how we share our lives, including our grief and loss. Here are some tips for announcing a death on platforms like Facebook.

What To Wear To A Funeral

Whether you're attending a formal service or a casual gathering, our guidelines will help you dress appropriately without drawing attention to yourself. Read on for essential tips on dressing for this somber occasion.

Should Children Attend Funerals?

Should children attend funerals? This question often weighs heavily on parents and caregivers. Funerals can serve as important family rituals, helping to acknowledge grief and foster healing. However, determining if a child is ready to attend involves understanding their age

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When Grief Meets Back-to-School

Back-to-school season can be a challenging time for grieving parents. As excitement fills the air with new supplies and fresh beginnings, the weight of loss can make even simple tasks feel monumental. How do you navigate milestones that remind you

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How to Help a Grieving Child Go Back to School

Here's how kids carry loss, why it often goes unseen at school, and what parents and teachers can do to help.

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What to Do When You Can’t Attend a Funeral

If you can't attend a funeral, there are many meaningful ways to honor a loved one’s memory beyond being physically present. Explore our suggestions to navigate this sensitive situation with care.

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The Healing Power of Journaling

Losing someone you love is tough and filled with strong emotions. It's crucial to find healthy coping mechanisms, and journaling can be a great support in dealing with grief. Writing allows you to express your feelings and honor your memories.

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What to Keep, What to Let Go of When a Loved One Dies

Practical strategies for anyone facing the difficult task of deciding what to keep and what to let go of after a loved one dies.

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Why You Should Acknowledge Someone’s Loss

When someone we care about experiences a loss, it can be challenging to know what to say. Many of us fear saying the wrong thing, leading to silence that can feel even more painful. Your words can make a difference,

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Five Things to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving

Five things you should avoid saying to someone who’s grieving, along with five supportive phrases that can offer comfort. Learn how to navigate these challenging conversations with compassion and understanding.

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10 Ways to Offer Support to Someone Who’s Grieving

Navigating the complexities of grief can be challenging, both for those who are grieving and for those who wish to offer support. Understanding what to say and how to act can make a significant difference during such a personal time.

How to Help a Grieving Parent

When my father died, my mother faced the daunting challenge of navigating life alone for the first time in nearly 60 years. As I grappled with my own grief, I found myself wondering how to support her through this profound

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Grief & Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day can bring up many feelings for those who have lost a mom or maternal figure. There’s no “right way” to deal with this day—what matters is finding comfort in a way that feels right to you. Discover helpful

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Valentine’s Day: A Survivor’s Guide

If you're grieving a loss, single, or simply overwhelmed by expectations, Valentine's Day can heighten feelings of isolation and heartache. Here's a Valentine's Day Survivor's Guide just for you.

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Small Ways to Mark Memorial Day

Memorial Day doesn't have to look one way. A few small, simple ideas for marking the day — at the cemetery, at home, or wherever the weekend finds you.

However You Spend Father’s Day

Remembering Dad on Father's Day. You might choose to visit the cemetery, share stories, or simply let the day pass quietly. The key is to honor your feelings and the bond you shared.

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Six Ideas to Help You Cope with Grief this Thanksgiving

Holidays can be especially tough when grieving a loved one. As Kathie Lee Gifford noted, this season can feel "bittersweet." It's important to acknowledge your emotions while also allowing for moments of joy. This Thanksgiving, consider creating new traditions to

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Five Ways to Support Someone Who Is Grieving During the Holidays

Five specific ways to support someone grieving during the holiday season. From being present and listening to acknowledging their loss, your actions can provide immense comfort.

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Holiday Gift Ideas for Someone Who’s Grieving

The holidays can feel impossibly heavy for someone missing a loved one. A thoughtful gift doesn't fix that pain, but it can say something powerful: "I remember them too."

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Giving Yourself Permission to Change Holiday Traditions

At the holidays, you don't have to do things the way you've always done them. Whether it's skipping the office party, cooking a beloved recipe, or creating new traditions, reshape your holidays in a way that feels right for you.

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The Space Between: When Everyone Goes Home

As the wrapping paper is tossed and the laughter fades, grief often steps forward, reclaiming its space. The days following Christmas or Hanukkah can bring a wave of emotions.

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A Guide for Coping with Grief at the Holidays

The holidays can be a challenging time for those coping with grief, as joy and celebration often clash with deep emotions of loss. In our guide, we offer tips to help you navigate this complex time.

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The First Christmas After a Loss

The first holiday season without a loved one can be incredibly challenging. As we navigate through the “firsts” of family gatherings and cherished traditions, it’s essential to remember that it’s okay to create new ways to honor their memory.

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Losing a Loved One During the Holidays

Losing a loved one during the holidays can be especially challenging, as the sights and sounds of the season often serve as painful reminders of your loss. It’s important to recognize that this is your new normal, and healing takes

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How to Set Goals at Any Time of the Year

Discover the importance of setting realistic, specific goals, planning, and staying accountable. Embrace the journey, learn from setbacks, and make intentional choices that align with your aspirations.

A Resolution That Lasts

Every January, we make promises to ourselves—but what if this year, you made a different kind of resolution? One that could bring your family closer and provide peace of mind for years to come? How to approach end-of-life planning without

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